Cremation without a funeral

There are many people out there who don't want a lot of fuss when they die and don't even want a funeral at all. So that begs the question, by law, in the UK, do you have to have a funeral? And if not, what are the options? We'll explore more in this article.

By law, do you have to have a funeral in the UK?

The short answer is: no. By law in the UK, there is no legal obligation to have a funeral. However, when somebody dies, the body must be disposed of either by being buried, cremated or donated to medical science.

By definition a funeral is "a ceremony or service held shortly after a person's death, usually including the person's burial or cremation." However, not everyone wishes for a formal funeral ceremony. Alternatively, you may wish to arrange a direct cremation.

Direct cremation is a simple, no-fuss alternative to traditional funerals. It involves the collection and cremation of the deceased without a preceding funeral service. The ashes are then returned to the family or scattered at the crematorium.

A celebration of life or memorial can still take place, but this happens separately from the cremation at a time and place of the family’s choosing. This provides the flexibility to remember a loved one in a way that’s personal and meaningful to them.

Though it's a pared-back service compared to a traditional funeral, the deceased is still treated with the same compassion and care you would expect any funeral provider to supply. Additionally, a direct cremation is the cheapest way to be cremated or buried and prices start with Distinct Cremations from just £1,299.

Reasons to have a funeral and reasons not to

The decision to have a funeral may depend on a number of factors. This could be a cultural or religious consideration, personal preference, practical reasons or financial reasons.

Here are some reasons why you might have a funeral and reasons why you might choose not to

Why choose to have a funeral

While some may opt for alternatives, there are several reasons why people choose to have a traditional funeral:

Common reasons to have a funeral:

  • Cultural and religious traditions: Many cultures and religions have specific rituals and traditions associated with death and funerals. These traditions may require a funeral service to honour the deceased.
  • Closure and processing grief: Funerals can help the grieving process by allowing family and friends to come together to mourn, share memories, and find emotional support from each other.
  • Honouring the deceased: A funeral provides an opportunity to celebrate the life, achievements, and contributions of the person who has passed away. It allows for the sharing of stories and memories that highlight their impact on others.
  • Preservation of family traditions: Funerals can preserve cultural and familial traditions related to death and burial, ensuring that these customs are passed down through generations.

Why choose not to have a funeral

Conversely, there are valid reasons for choosing not to have a funeral:

Common reasons not to have a funeral:

  • Personal preference: Some people may have expressed a desire for no formal funeral or memorial service in their will or in conversations with loved ones for no reason other than personal preference.
  • Financial considerations: Funerals can be expensive, and some families may not have the financial means to organise a funeral service when there is an alternative to go without.
  • Environmental concerns: Some people opt for a green funeral, a water cremation or a natural burial to minimise their environmental impact. These alternatives may not involve traditional funeral services.
  • Geographic constraints: In cases where the deceased's family and friends are scattered across the globe, it may be challenging to organise a traditional funeral that accommodates everyone's needs and schedules.

What happens if you choose not to have a funeral?

If you choose not to have a funeral, you can choose alternatives that offer flexibility and cost savings. Common options include direct cremation, where the deceased is cremated without a service or attended cremation with a small, intimate service led by the family.

Here are a few alternatives you may like to consider if you or your loved one aren't interested in having a traditional funeral.

Unattended cremation

Cremation without a funeral

An unattended cremation or direct cremation, now favoured by 20% of the UK population*, has quickly become the most popular alternative. They take place without mourners or a funeral service. After the cremation the family has the option to host a memorial service.

Many like the idea of an unattended cremation because it allows the family to have a memorial service which is separate from the cremation itself.

* SunLife Cost of Dying Report 2025, sunlife.co.uk/funeral-costs

More about unattended cremation

Attended cremations

Family Of Three Embracing

A small or private attended cremation, sometimes referred to as a family-led funeral, is a funeral with a small attended service designed and guided by the family of the deceased, without a celebrant or religious minister. The choice of how the service looks is entirely with the family.

A small, attended cremation or family-led funeral is an intimate affair usually favoured by those looking to say farewell in a straightforward way. There is no procession and the service can be as traditional or non-traditional as the family wants.

More about attended cremations

Natural burial

Tree pod burial

Natural burials are a type of green funeral which are fast becoming a popular alternative funeral choice as people become more environmentally aware. A natural burial, occasionally referred to as a woodland burial or green burial, is where the deceased is buried at a green burial site in a natural coffin or shroud.

A green burial site is often in a forest, meadow or wooded area. Currently in the UK, these aren’t especially common. However they are increasing in availability as demand increases.

How is a funeral with Distinct Cremations different?

Choosing a simple, no fuss funeral instead of a traditional cremation lets you celebrate a loved one’s life however you wish, with less stress and no fuss.

You can see the key differences between a simple, no fuss funeral and a traditional funeral in more detail below.

Cremation with Distinct

A simple funeral with Distinct Cremations

The contemporary, simple, fuss-free farewell, free of tradition

  • A choice of two options: an unattended cremation with no mourners present or an attended cremation
  • A compassionate, attentive team there 24/7 for your questions and support with paperwork
  • A service free of pomp and ceremony
  • You can organise a separate memorial service that's personal and unique to your loved one
  • On average 69% cheaper** than a traditional funeral, with prices starting from just £1,299


** 69% saving is based on the cost of a basic funeral at £4,285 (SunLife Cost of Dying Report 2025, sunlife.co.uk/funeral-costs) vs the cost of a Distinct Cremations direct cremation at £1,299

Traditional Funeral

Traditional funeral

A fixed format funeral, with a set service

  • A set format 20-50 minute service held in a traditional setting like a church or chapel with mourners present
  • Traditionally less personal and flexible
  • Option to have a procession with a hearse and limousines
  • Funeral and service coordination from a funeral director
  • Costs on average £4,285# for a basic funeral





    # The average cost of a basic funeral in 2024 (SunLife Cost of Dying Report 2025, sunlife.co.uk/funeral-costs)

Get in touch with us today

Whether you're wanting to arrange a funeral today, interested in funeral plans, or looking for something else, our customer service specialists are here for you 24/7 to answer any questions you may have.

Call on 01543 211997

Other helpful resources

Below are a few more resources that you may be interested in.

Do you have to use a funeral director?

funeral director

It is possible to organise a funeral yourself without a funeral director. If you choose to arrange a funeral without a funeral director, there are a number of key elements that you’ll need to take into consideration.

Do you have to use a funeral director?

Arrange a funeral with Distinct

What to do if someone dies in Scotland_ wild flowers

At Distinct Cremations, we provide no fuss funerals which are simple to arrange, affordable and delivered with care, dignity and respect. Prices start from just £1,299 if you need to arrange a funeral today.

Arrange a funeral

FAQs

What is the cost difference between a traditional funeral and a direct cremation?

A traditional funeral in the UK costs around £4,285 on average[1]. In comparison, a direct cremation is much cheaper, starting from just £1,299 with Distinct Cremations. Direct cremation involves cremating the deceased without a funeral service beforehand, which reduces the overall cost significantly.
[1] SunLife Cost of Dying Report 2025, sunlife.co.uk/funeral-costs

Is it necessary to have a traditional funeral director?

No, you don't have to have a funeral director. While they can help with the arrangements and paperwork, you can choose to organise the funeral yourself. This means handling the necessary documents, transporting the body, and coordinating with the crematorium or burial site on your own.

What our customers say about us

We offer the highest level of support, but don't just take our word for it. Below are recent reviews from customers who bought a funeral with us.

4.9/5
Feefo logo
4.9/5
Google g icon
4.8/5
Trustpilot logo
Read all our reviews
Anonymous, on Feefo 19 Aug 2025
very helpful polite and explained everything well.
Anonymous, on Feefo 16 Aug 2025
Distinct Cremations were absolutely wonderful, when my loved one passed. My loved one was treated with the utmost dignity and respect. From start to finish they communicated with me on the whole process, whilst also checking the family were OK. Sarah Miller and the rest of the team were so kind right to the end, and after my loved ones ashes were returned to us by Sophie, who showed us so much kindness, at a very sad time. Thank you all for everything you helped me and my family with.
Ella Rose Ann Clarke, on Feefo 26 Jul 2025
I was really surprised with how professional, kind & reassuring Direct Cremations were. I would highly recommend.
Sara June Smith, on Feefo 24 Jul 2025
This was the perfect intimate family funeral. Everything was well organised and took all the pressure away as I had never had to organise a funeral before. Kerry at Distinct Cremations made sure everything was just right and exactly what we wanted. The team at the crematorium were just as caring and explained how everything would happen. Thank you so much for making a difficult time so much easier.
Anonymous, on Feefo 23 Jul 2025
Truly profesional. I cannot express enough how fantastic the care and compasion and genuine kindness distinct have,, Alice was my regular contact and is such a lovely person I feel like we're friends.. MY brother was treated with care and respect..distinct cremations took care of everything in a lovely chapel and gorgeous gardens, they kept me informed every step of the way, from the very start, to the end, after getting his ashes home in a beautiful presented casket of my choice which I chose from a list I requested from them,PLEASE if your considering this kind of funeral with details of your own choice then look no further, you will not be disappointed, cannot thank Alice and all the tram at distinct enough, and will be arranging mine and my husbands funeral plans with them,
Anthony Victor Johnson, on Feefo 21 Jul 2025
An easy & sensitive experience. Good information from Martin Lewis, Moneysupermaker who recommends this firm & clear info on website. Staff helpful &the product just right for us Many thanks
Anonymous, on Feefo 15 Jul 2025
A+++ Could not recommend there service highly enough After the passing of my father they could not do enough to take care of everything The aftercare was also really caring and considerate
Anonymous, on Feefo 11 Jul 2025
For good and very helpfull
4.9/5
Feefo logo
4.9/5
Google g icon
4.8/5
Trustpilot logo
Read all our reviews

Not found what you're looking for?

Not found what you're looking for?