A family led funeral is a funeral with a service arranged without a funeral director and without a religious leader or celebrant leading the service.
The care, transportation and preparation of the deceased for the funeral is still taken care of by the funeral provider, but the service itself can be organised however the family like. The funeral therefore can be more of a personal affair, and can contain readings, poems, music, hymns or even a video if the venue has audio and visual capabilities.
Family led funerals mostly apply to funeral cremations rather than burials, as a burial will almost always need the help of an undertaker.
If you'd like to know how to organise a family led funeral, you can speak to our team on 01543 211997 or read on below.
There are a number of stark differences between a family led funeral and a traditional funeral. The deceased will receive exemplary care for both types of service, but the day of the funeral will look very different.
A contemporary, simple, fuss-free farewell, free of tradition
⊛ 61% saving is based on the cost of a basic funeral at £4,141 (SunLife Cost of Dying Report 2024, sunlife.co.uk/funeral-costs) vs the cost of a Distinct Cremations Intimate Cremation at £1,599
A fixed format funeral, with a set service
Below is a step by step process of how to arrange a family led funeral, right from the moment a loved one has died right through to the day of the cremation.
Contact a funeral provider
Whether a loved one has died or they're receiving end of life care, it's best to contact a funeral provider as early as possible so you can start to get arrangements in place.
Though you can arrange a funeral yourself, it's much easier to let a funeral provider carry out the logistics of the funeral for you.
This includes collection of the deceased, care at the mortuary facility, and transportation of the deceased to the crematorium.
Complete the funeral paperwork
Before a cremation can be booked you will first need to register the death and complete the obligatory legal paperwork.
At Distinct Cremations, we can help you with the paperwork should you need any assistance.
Choose a crematorium, date and service
Once the paperwork is completed, the funeral provider you're speaking to will be able to give you some dates, crematorium and service options.
From here, the funeral provider can book the cremation for you and organise the transportation of the deceased.
Arrange the service
You will now be able to arrange a service that's personal to you.
First start by inviting your guests, then think about how you'd like the service to look. Maybe you'd like some music to be played to begin and end the service, and you may like some readings and poems dotted throughout. All of our crematoriums have audio/visual capabilities too, so you may like to play a video or a slide show of images.
If you'd like any help or you'd like to know what's possible, you can speak to our team on 01543 211997 at any time of the day.
The cremation
On the day of the cremation, the deceased will then be transported and placed in the crematorium before the attendees arrive.
At our crematoriums, there will be a chapel attendant present to make sure the day runs smoothly.
Want more information? We're happy to answer any questions you may have about our cremations over the phone, or you can request a free guide for details about what we offer.
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Need some time to digest the details? You can download a PDF of our guide online or get a printed copy posted out.
Get our guideBefore someone dies, getting an understanding of what to do when someone dies, can help to ease the stress and confusion that you may face. Here's a handy checklist that will be of help with the legal requirements and the overall logistics for when the time comes.
Here at Distinct Cremations, we have created a free checklist for you to download which lets you know what you need to do when someone dies.
These days, there are many alternatives to a traditional funeral. This can be something like an unattended, direct cremation which is a cremation without a funeral. A private cremation, which has a small funeral service. Or a natural burial which is an environmentally friendly alternative.
Here are a few alternatives you may like to consider if you or your loved one aren't interested in having a traditional funeral.
An unattended cremation or direct cremation, now favoured by 20% of the UK population*, has quickly become the most popular alternative. They take place without mourners or a funeral service. After the cremation the family has the option to host a memorial service.
Many like the idea of an unattended cremation because it allows the family to have a memorial service which is separate from the cremation itself.
* SunLife Cost of Dying Report 2024, sunlife.co.uk/funeral-costs
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Natural burials are a type of green funeral which are fast becoming a popular choice to an alternative funeral as people become more environmentally aware. A natural burial, occasionally referred to as a woodland burial or green burial, is where the deceased is buried at a green burial site in a natural coffin or shroud.
A green burial site is often in a forest, meadow or wooded area. Currently in the UK, these aren’t especially common, however they are increasing in availability as demand increases.
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Otherwise known as a resomation or aquamation, a water cremation is not currently available in the UK, but is popular in other parts of the world. With a water cremation, the body is placed in a pressurised tank and pressed into powder. It is an environmentally friendlier alternative to a traditional cremation.
In the same way as the ashes are returned to the family following a traditional cremation, the powder can also be returned to the deceased following a resomation.
More about funeral alternativesBelow are a few further articles that you may be interested in with regards to organising a funeral.
At Distinct Cremations, we provide no fuss funerals which are simple to arrange, affordable and delivered with care, dignity and respect. Prices start from just £1,199 if you need to arrange a funeral today.
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