14 moving funeral poems

Funeral poems can be uplifting, tearjerking and can unlock the heart in a way few things can. They can also provide a comfort at the most difficult time. Below are some funeral poem examples you might like to have at your or your loved one's funeral.

What poem should I read at a funeral?

You can read any poem at a funeral. You may want to take inspiration from some of the examples below, or you may even like to write one yourself.

It can be downbeat, it can be cheery. It can be solemn, it can be funny. The choice is completely yours and your family's.

There's also no set length for a funeral poem. Some people prefer short funeral poems, some people prefer something a little longer. The only thing to consider is how long the funeral service is. For example, if you're having a funeral which only lasts 20 minutes, you may not want to go on too long.

But have a chat with the organiser of the funeral and see what they think. You'll likely be able to work something out together.

Short funeral poems

In just a few lines, these two beautiful, yet short funeral poems can provide solace and comfort for every single person attending the funeral.

Though they are short, they are mighty in their own way. H.W Longfellow's last line from his longer poem Resignation, in particular, is a real punch to the heart.

While Karen White's poem ends in an equally beautiful way, expressing words that many of us can resonate with and relate to at that most difficult of time.

Short funeral poems



We see but dimly

A snippet from HW Longfellow's longer poem, Resignation.

We see but dimly through the mists and vapours;

Amid these earthly damps

What seem to us but sad, funeral tapers

May be heaven's distant lamps

If Tears Could Build a Stairway

A poem by Karen White from her book Pieces of the Heart.

If tears could build a stairway,

And memories a lane,

I’d walk right up to heaven

And bring you home again.

Uplifting funeral poems

Some funeral poems can make us weep, and for many, that's what they want from a funeral poem.

But for others, something more uplifting, upbeat or even funny is more to their taste. So below are two examples of wonderfully, uplifting funeral poems that might resonate with your heart.

The first by the legendary Robert Burns eulogises his great friend, before ending the poem with two beautifully uplifting lines. While the equally legendary Robert Louis Stevenson's poem offers a truly uplifting, bright perspective on the end of life.

Short funeral poems



Epitaph On My Own Friend

Robert Burns's poem written about his friend William Muir.

An honest man here lies at rest,

As e’er God with His image blest:

The friend of man, the friend of truth;

The friend of age, and guide of youth:

Few hearts like his, with virtue warm’d,

Few heads with knowledge so inform’d:

If there’s another world, he lives in bliss;

If there is none, he made the best of this.

Requiem

The great Robert Louis Stevenson's poem about end of life peace.

Under the wide and starry sky,

Dig the grave and let me lie.

Glad did I live and gladly die,

And I laid me down with a will.

This be the verse you grave for me:

Here he lies where he longed to be;

Home is the sailor, home from sea,

And the hunter home from the hill.

Funny funeral poems

Often, the most memorable poems from a funeral are the ones that make you smile and make you laugh.

That's why funny funeral poems are so great and so effective, and why so many more people are leaning towards having something slightly jovial at their funeral.

Especially for those looking to have a more celebratory, alternative funeral, or even a memorial service after a direct cremation, a funny funeral poem in that instance, is the perfect accompaniment.

Funny funeral poems



Death

A poem written by the comedian Sean Hughes.

I want to be cremated

I know how boring funerals can be

I want people to gather

meet new people

have a laugh, a dance, meet a loved one.

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A traditional Japanese death poem written by Moriya Sen’an.

Bury me when I die

beneath a wine barrel

in a tavern.

With luck

the cask will leak.

Non religious funeral poems

Many of the most popular funeral poems are religious of sort, as we've discovered in this list so far.

It may be just a subtle not to heaven, or to God. It could be something a Bible reading like Psalm 23.

But there are plenty of funeral poems out there of a non religious nature, with no nod to any religious deity or concept. These two are our favourites - maybe they will become yours too.

Non religious funeral poems



Remember Me

Margaret Mead's poem, often used as a eulogy.

To the living, I am gone,

To the sorrowful, I will never return,

To the angry, I was cheated,

But to the happy, I am at peace,

And to the faithful, I have never left.

I cannot speak, but I can listen.

I cannot be seen, but I can be heard.

So as you stand upon a shore gazing at a beautiful sea,

As you look upon a flower and admire its simplicity,

Remember me.

Remember me in your heart:

Your thoughts, and your memories,

Of the times we loved,

The times we cried,

The times we fought,

The times we laughed.

For if you always think of me, I will never have gone.

Crossing The Bar

Lord Alfred Tennyson's poem written about his impending death.

Sunset and evening star,

And one clear call for me!

And may there be no moaning of the bar,

When I put out to sea,

But such a tide as moving seems asleep,

Too full for sound and foam,

When that which drew from out the boundless deep

Turns again home.

Twilight and evening bell,

And after that the dark!

And may there be no sadness of farewell,

When I embark;

For tho' from out our bourne of Time and Place

The flood may bear me far,

I hope to see my Pilot face to face

When I have crost the bar.

Funeral poems for Dad

Some of the poets from throughout history have penned funeral poems for their Dad or a funeral eulogy for their Dad.

Below two of our favourites. The first by Kelly Roper is a very humorous, modern take on the 21st century father, which won't be perfect for every father, but will be for some.

While Helen Lowrie Marshall's poem is written from the father's perspective, about the afterglow that their life leaves once they are here no more.

Dad funeral poems



Pardon Me For Not Getting Up

Kelly Roper's funny poem will encapsulate many a father's personality and self.

Oh dear, if you’re reading this right now,

I must have given up the ghost.

I hope you can forgive me for being

Such a stiff and unwelcoming host.

Just talk amongst yourself my friends,

And share a toast or two.

For I am sure you will remember well

How I loved to drink with you.

Don’t worry about mourning me,

I was never easy to offend.

Feel free to share a story at my expense

And we’ll have a good laugh at the end.

Afterglow

Helen Lowrie Marshall's poem celebrates the presence of a loved one after they have departed.

I’d like the memory of me to be a happy one.

I’d like to leave an afterglow of smiles when life is done.

I’d like to leave an echo whispering softly down the ways,

Of happy times and laughing times and bright and sunny days.

I’d like the tears of those who grieve, to dry before the sun;

Of happy memories that I leave when life is done.

Funeral poems for Mum

Funeral poems for Mums are as equally as common as funeral poems for Dads, and some of them can hit equally as hard.

We've picked two below which are very different both in length and style. David Harkins' poem is just a short four-liner which meanders its way to the heart centre very quickly.

While Michael Ashby's longer poem, takes a little bit of care and time to tell its story, and encapsulates the British mother in way only a poem about English breakfast tea can.

Mum funeral poems



She is Gone

David Harkins' short funeral poem is perfect for a mother, and was actually read at the funeral of the Queen Mother

You can shed tears that she is gone

Or you can smile because she has lived

You can close your eyes and pray that she will come back

Or you can open your eyes and see all that she has left

A Long Cup of Tea

For mother's who loved team, this beautiful, ubeat poem by Michael Ashby is perfect

Death is too negative for me

So I'll be popping off for a long cup of tea

Do splash out on two bags in the pot

And for my god's sake keep the water hot

Please pick the biggest mug you can find

Size really does matter at this time

I'll pass on the lapsang with that souchong

And that stuff with bergamot

And stick with my favourite friend

You know the English breakfast blend

Breakfast! thanks for reminding me

There's just time before I fail

To stand on ceremony

Two rashers of best back, Should keep me

Smelling sweet up the smokestack

So, mother, put the kettle on for me

It's time, mother, for my long cup of tea

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